Dr. Nick’s Reflection: The Image in the Mirror
Every morning, we face a quiet moment of truth—the reflection staring back at us in the mirror. It’s not just about our physical appearance, the lines of exhaustion, the unruly hair, or the aging we try to ignore. The mirror reveals something deeper. It reflects who we are, not just on the surface, but in the depths of our hearts.
What do you see when you look at yourself? Do you see someone who is kind? Someone who loves without conditions? Do you see a person who uplifts others, or do you catch a glimpse of bitterness, resentment, or self-doubt?
We spend so much time worrying about how the world sees us—our looks, our accomplishments, our status. But the truth is, the real question isn’t how the world sees you—it’s how you see yourself. And even deeper than that, how does your reflection align with the person God calls you to be?
Mirrors are honest. They don’t lie. They don’t filter out imperfections or hide the things we wish weren’t there. And just like the mirror we glance at in the morning, life itself is a mirror.
The way we treat people reflects what’s inside of us. If we carry anger, it shows. If we carry love, that shines even brighter. When we snap at a stranger, ignore someone in need, or let jealousy control us, the mirror of life shows those cracks. But when we extend grace, kindness, and forgiveness, the reflection shifts.
It’s easy to focus on what we want to change on the outside. We stand in front of the mirror adjusting, fixing, critiquing. But how often do we pause and ask, what do I need to adjust on the inside?
As a Christian, I believe we are called to reflect the image of Christ. That doesn’t mean perfection. It means striving to be a reflection of His love, mercy, and grace.
When Jesus walked this earth, He didn’t look into the eyes of the broken and say, “You’re not good enough.” He didn’t pick apart people’s pasts or tell them they weren’t worthy. Instead, He saw them fully—flaws and all—and loved them anyway. If we are truly following Christ, our reflection should start to look more like Him.
Do we show love, even when it’s difficult? Do we extend grace, even when people don’t deserve it? Do we carry peace, or do we carry bitterness? Do our actions reflect the person we claim to be? If the answer is no, it doesn’t mean we’re failing—it just means we have work to do. And we all do.
This week, when you look in the mirror, don’t just glance at the surface. Look deeper. Ask yourself—who am I becoming?
Are you the person you want to be? Are you reflecting kindness, patience, and love? Or do you need to shift, to grow, to soften your heart?
The good news is, just like we can change the way we look, we can change the way we live. We can choose to reflect something better. So let’s stop worrying so much about the reflection in the glass and start focusing on the reflection in our hearts. Let’s make sure that when the world looks at us, they don’t just see a person.
They see love.
